ADHD & Aspergers Forum
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I agree with everything Anj has said. I have the same problems with my son whom also has ADHD, if asked why he would always reply "i don't know". I also don't ask why anymore but just explain why he shouldn't. Daniel is now quite calm at home although very silly at times (he is 12 by the way). This does not apply to him at school though, the teachers haven't got time or patience to deal with him. They end up telling him off in front of the class, and Daniel retaliates by having a go back, swearing, and walking out. He is also in detention most days, and now they are threatening to exclude him. I have regular meetings at school and SENCO just don't listen to me when i tell them how to deal with Dan. You may not be able to change what goes on in school, but you can make an amazing difference at home. The school will just have to put up with the behaviour if they are not prepared to listen to you.
Good luck
Jo
