This is what I have found so far and I am wondering if anyone can verify what I have and if you could help with the John's that came before Robert. The ancestry website is really confusing.
Welcome to the family. I can confirm the lineage from Robert and Mary Lilly down to your father Steve Lilly. Please disregard all information prior to Robert and Mary Lilly. There has been a lot of wishful thinking without any evidence at all.
I have taken the liberty of adding the information you posted to the data I have and will be emailing you a pedigree chart for your daughter.