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Chronolgy Cont:
* Abuser remarries at wedding little daughter is burned with curling iron on
forarm. burn is blistering, seeping fluid and about an inch and 1/2 long.
And her underwear is removed.
*Abuser returns little daughter with brusing on upper arm and forarm brother
sees
* I speak to town police they refuse to get involved. Town police send me to adjoining town.
* Police statements taken and child protective services open investigation.
* Within week after child protection service talks to abuser on phone only
* investigation dropped by child protection services.
* Child protection worker visits my home.
* Family doctor makes report to child protection agency against abuser after
doctor Visit reguarding abuser.
* Legal services mails letter stating no funds to help.
* Little daughter agitated and crying . There is redmark from kneecap to ankle.
Little daughter talks about wife rubbing her butt ?feels like sawing in half?
booby traps, her book of wrongs, taken to another county where wife beats her,
chemicals sprayed in her eyes and more.
* I report again to child protection services. Little daughter tells worker
herself.
* Child protection services refuises to help, says they can't get invovled since it civil matter.
* I go to domestic violences shelter. Advocate advises child psychologist,
and keep journal.
* Little daughter starts therapy with domestic violence recommended.
* Little daughter returned crying brother no longer welcome for tell child
protection Service worker about abuse.
2002:
*Legal services mails letter stating no funds to help.
* Little daughter agitated and crying . There is redmark from kneecap to
ankle. Little daughter talks about wife rubbing her butt feels like sawing in half?
booby traps, her book of wrongs, taken to another county where wife
beats her, chemicals sprayed in her eyes and more.
* I report again to child protection services. Little daughter tells
worker herself. Child protection services refuses to help.
*I go to domestic violences shelter. Advocate advises child psychologist,
and keep journal.
* Little daughter starts therapy with child psychologist referred by domestic violence safe house recommends.
* Little daughter returned crying brother no longer welcome for tell child protection
Service worker about abuse.
* Little daughter returned crying says she is so hungry.
* After abuser refuses to bring little daughter home I speak to town
police. Town police refuse to get invovled.
* Little daughter suicidal over book of wrongs wants to die. Little
daughter says she cannot fix all her wrongs little daughter is tired.
* Abuser's wife tries to run me and children off road. I flee with
children to safe house.
* Court places Protection order against abuser's wife on behalf of me and
little daughter. Ad litem compels visit on contingency abuser promises to keep
wife not around little daughter. This is not complied with. ad litem doesn't believe.
*Little daughter's Phsychologist goes to child Protection Services with me to
demand casa for little daughter since part of abuse happened in nearby county.
*Child Protection Agency refuses casa worker for little daughter and
refuses to investigate.
* Little daughter referred to new woman counselor.
* New counselor files initial assessment . Summary notes little daughter
suicudial , intensive fear of abuser and adjustment disorder stemming from abuse.
Counselar places little daughter on suicide watch while in safe house.
* While in safe house ad litem compells me to turn little daughter over to abuser.
* Abuser promptly forces little daughter to divulge location of safe house,
threatens little daughter with violence, call mother names to little
daughter, picks fingernail polish off little daughters fingers with
abusers fingernails, abuser tells little daughter again child protection agency on his
side.
* Safe house counselor promptly issues safe phone to me they are
concerned for our safety.
* Safe house child advocate files statement of little daughter telling
advocate of abuse